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Should Love be Unconditional?

Hey, welcome back and thanks for reading! Today’s post is long overdue. Well actually, this whole new category on my blog is long overdue! But nonetheless I am here now, with a pressing question; should love be unconditional? I don’t think there is one definite answer to this question because it depends on who you’re loving. Based off of personal experience when you love somebody unconditionally and it’s not being reciprocated, you’re only draining yourself of all the love you…

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The Best Recipe for Healing

Welcome back thanks for reading! Before I get into 4 ways you can begin your healing journey I want to remind everyone that these four steps aren’t a recipe (GOTCHA) for healing, they are more like a pattern to follow in order to manage your journey. There’s going to be highs and lows, different feelings everyday so how we manage this journey is essential to not slipping back into those toxic, negative mindsets. Acknowledge your feelings This means it’s time…

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What It Means To Be Black In America

Hey, welcome and thanks for reading. A lot happened last week and even though the media isn’t covering it, a lot is STILL happening this week. Protests, indictments, rioting and some cities still have curfews in place. First the world was on pause because of COVID-19, but now it’s in shambles. And I mean, if we’re being honest, the world has been in shambles, everything is just being brought to light now and we can no longer ignore it. The…

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Self Love Reflections: Gratitude

So in order to try and practice self love daily, I made up some journal prompts for myself based off what I felt I needed to reflect on and a little help from google lol. One of these prompts being, “What am I grateful for?” Expressing gratitude is imperative on a self love journey because it helps you see the brighter side of things. I tried re wording that sentence a bunch of times but honestly, that’s the best way…

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There’s a Difference Between Self Love and Self Care?

Hey! Welcome back and thanks for reading. So as we all know, self care and self love has become a trend, which is weird to admit, but it has. That’s a topic for another blog post or YouTube video. Anywho, it’s trending now and since it is I think a lot of people have got the two confused. And with a lot of young and impressionable people having access to social media, I really wanted to clarify a few things….

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Choose Yourself First Always

Hey welcome back and thanks for reading! If you guys have been keeping up with my posts then you know that I am embarking on an active self love journey, which means that I am trying to find ways to practice self love almost every day because like Will Smith said, “Self discipline is the definition of self love.” So one of the things this self love journey is teaching me is that I need to be a little bit…

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Stop the Cycle, Choose Self Love

Hey, welcome back! I know it’s been a while, but thanks for reading! So I started this blog in hopes that I would inspire others to want to be more transparent about their journeys to finding their ultimate purpose in life. I didn’t really know or understand what self love was when I started this. Looking back on it now, I see that I had the right ideas but I wasn’t on the right path, I let myself and the…

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Creating in Good Mental Health

It’s been a while since my last post, but I am finally feeling almost all the way back to myself again. I have been struggling with my mental health on and off, since I was 13, but during my most recent social media hiatus while I was not making content, the depression hit a bit differently than it ever had before. I’ll begin to unpack all of that in my upcoming posts. So at first when I realized that my…

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Life Update #3 | What’s Really Been Going On with Me?

I’m not really sure where I left off in my last life update but I know for sure that things have changed a lot. Before I jump into all the details, I want to mention that I am going to be replacing the ‘ work ‘ section of this series with ‘ business ‘ instead because while I was away I started a business and now I am in the process of starting up another one, so that has become…

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Journal Entry 7/1/19 6:27 a.m.

So according to this book it seems I haven’t written anything since the beginning of the year. Writing helps me sort my thoughts and feelings yet when I’m going through the most, well, my most, trying times I just can’t find it in me to write. During all the madness I can’t. I mean this was actually a different experience for me because usually when I’m going through a depression I’ll still write but I don’t know why this time…

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